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TELEVISION: SIMI GAREWAL
Confide in MeShe has the gift of
getting her celebrity guests to open up and reveal, making her syrupy interviews one of
the most popular shows on television.
By Priya
Ramani
Asia's biggest media baron
seems a trifle uneasy. He returns her warm greeting with an awkward half smile that almost
has you believing he is getting ready to flee the television cameras chronicling his
discomfort. Unruffled, the lady proceeds to work her magic. As usual, she succeeds. Seven
minutes into the interview, Rupert Murdoch is telling Simi Garewal about his failed
marriage and talking candidly about the resulting divorce. Ten minutes and he's sharing
his concept of the ideal relationship and discussing his hopes for his children.
A few gentle nods -- to indicate she is enraptured by his
story -- and some quiet propelling has Murdoch divulging what music he would like to play
when he is wooing a woman. Celine Dion, for all those interested. By this time, Murdoch is
sitting back, one foot resting casually on his other leg, laughing often enough and in no
hurry to head anywhere. When it's time to say goodbye, he envelops the gracious hand --
perfectly painted red nails and all -- with both his own in a vigorous bearshake.
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Q.
Have you ever found unconditional love?
Jayalalitha: No,
I have not. I think it exists only in books, in poems and in films. Not in real life.
Never. |
Murdoch is simply experiencing what a clutch of
favoured desi celebrities before him have -- a chatty yet revealing Rendezvous with Simi
Garewal. The same show which entered the top five Star Plus TRP ratings within a month of
its launch in October 1997 and which went on to hit No. 1 with the Shah Rukh Khan
interview in January 1998 bypassing Hindi serials like Tu Tu Main Main and Saans. Where
Nina Pillai broke down in her first ever heart-to-heart about her late husband Rajan.
Where superstar Amitabh Bachchan said socially he had nothing in common with Rekha. Where
Ismail Merchant swore he would be married by the year 2000. Where Anil Kapooilsaid his
family thinks he is a fool. And where Shabana Azmi announced candidly that hubby Javed
Akhtar always left the bathroom messy.
Quiz her on how she gets her usually not-so-garrulous guests
to chatter and Garewal simply shrugs: "I ask." The popular weekly confessional
that allows viewers a sometimes too saccharine-sweet peek into the lives of stars from the
worlds of sport, politics, business and entertainment is back in its second season with
personalities who are harder nuts to crack. Like J. Jayalalitha, for instance.
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Q.
People perceive you as being remote and a recluse.
Ratan Tata: I
think it is true. And I suffer from that... Over time, one becomes alone and the job makes
you a little lonely. |
When Garewal went to Chennai to interview the
politician, she was told by aides that "madam" might be late. Or that she might
not even show up. Her guest arrived punctually, and they chatted for a couple of minutes
before the cameras began rolling. It was their first meeting, but minutes into the
interview they were belting out an old favourite Hindi number. How? Garewal asked, of
course. The only person she probably didn't ask was Kapil Dev when she spliced together
all her guests in a spoofy finale last year where one segment revolved around the
pregnancy of the veteran cricketer. For weeks after that episode, every time he missed a
golf shot Kapil attributed it to his pregnancy. "I didn't see it," confesses
Kapil, "but everyone said it was hilarious."
So far, the new 25-episode line-up includes Vijay Mallya,
Farooq Abdullah with his son Omar, Garewal's childhood idol Gayatri Devi, Aishwarya Rai,
Zeenat Aman, Murdoch, Pandit Ravi Shankar with wife Sukanya and daughter Anoushka and the
already telecast segments of Shekhar Kapur and Suchitra Krishnamurthy who said honestly
that her career is more important to her than her husband's.
The actress-turned television director-turned celebrity
interviewer who is always impeccably clothed in white -- or ivory or cream or pale beige
-- knows exactly what makes her celebrity guests tick. Before she meets them. "You
have to know everything about them so you are in control and so they can't surprise
you," says Garewal, an amateur computer chess player who spent a year researching
champion Vishwanathan Anand, including reading about many of the games he played.
"She's very meticulous," says sister and executive producer Amrita. But then
Garewal has always been just that. She spent almost five years with former prime minister
Rajiv Gandhi chrodhcling his life for a high-profile documentary and still has the nearly
500 hours of footage from that time.
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Q.
Amitji, what are the demons that drive you?
Amitabh Bachchan: Always,
it's the fear of failure. Of not being recognised. Fear of anonymity. It's a terrible
feeling. |
Her style is as effective as it is simple. "You
have to lead into the question slowly. Ask people too specific a question and they get
stumped." Next, she listens. "When I'm doing that interview I'm at the peak of
my concentration. I listen to every word because you never know what you should pick up
and follow up on," says Garewal. Well-placed cameras that sit inconspicuously on the
fringes of her elaborate set anywhere from eight to 15 feet away from her guest and a crew
of 40 that largely stays out of sight further propel the flow of words. Though no diffused
lighting or "soft focus" is ever used, guests know the great make-up and the
bounce lighting (not directly in-your-face) will ensure that they look good on her show.
But that still doesn't explain how the concerned,
well-modulated voice almost invariably elicits fresh insights from oft-interviewed celebs
on everything from loveless childhoods to current relationships. Postulates Jaya Bachchan:
"She doesn't create awkward moments for anyone. She makes you comfortable and that
makes you drop your guard." Adds friend and another former guest Shobha De:
"It's not about expos s or digging the dirt on anyone's life or embarrassing anyone.
Within that context it works." Agrees Garewal: "I want to understand my guests.
I'm not here to diminish or decimate them or to put them in a corner. You never get
anything out of people like that."
What's
Next...

Rupert Murdoch
March 30, 1999
Jayalalitha
April 6 and 13, 1999
Vijay Mallya
April 20, 1999
Gayatri Devi
April 27, 1999
Ravi Shankar, wife Sukanya and daughter Anoushka
May 4 and 11, 1999
Farooq Abdullah and son Omar
To be scheduled
Aishwarya Rai
To be schedule

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Of course it helps that Garewal herself is one of them.
"I can identify with them because I have been on the same side of the fence as they
are," says the actress who first turned interviewer in the early '80s with the
television series It's a Woman's World. "These are the same people who I would invite
to my house." The calming, almost ethereal patio set of Rendezvous is, in fact,
modelled after the terrace of Garewal's south Mumbai apartment. Its all-white trellis
complete with antique door, homely creepers and even a pool of water that shimmers
comfortingly in the light helps maintain the illusion of an informal chat.
But most of Garewal's interviews peel away more layers than
just a casual conversation. Like the forthcoming one with Zeenat Aman, in which the former
screen goddess recounts her not-too-happy marital tale. During the course of the
rendezvous, she reminisces how her mother was against her marriage to the late actor
Mazhar Khan. Cut to near the end when Garewal asks her if she has any regrets? "I
wish I wd listened more to my mother," Zeenat confides.
The woman who inspires confidences largely because people
believe she is genuinely interested in what they have to say is, strangely enough, very
reticent about herself. In fact, the technology junkie -- "I run my life via the
computer" -- who is as likely to visit the nearest electronics studio as she is to
pick up the whites from the latest Giorgio Armani collection on her trips abroad, says she
prefers hanging out at home. It is this inability to share her innermost feelings even
with those closest to her that makes her envy the ability of her guests to pour their
hearts out while the country watches. "I admire people who can talk about themselves.
I can't do it." Perhaps she needs a rendezvous with Simi Garewal. |