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Sita-nic verses

The countrywide assault launched by the Shiv Sena on Deepa Mehta’s controversial film Fire is not a surprising or isolated incident. It just reveals the Sena’s political perverseness. Whether lesbianism is good or not is not the point. Certainly, it is an abnormal practice but that does not justify the heinous and concerted effort to stop the film from being shown. After all, Fire is not a vulgar movie, it is a sensitive treatment of a delicate issue. However, it is not possible to expect anything more from a purely communal party whose leader’s self-professed idol is Hitler and which has unleashed a reign of terror and religious tension in Mumbai over the past few years—ravaging M F Hussain’s house, not allowing Ghulam Ali to perform and threatening to disrupt the much awaited tour of the Pakistan cricket team.

Mr Thackeray cannot seem to keep religion out of anything. He does not know that art, music and sports do not accept the boundaries that people with minds as narrow as his own have created. He does not know that people want to see Sachin facing Akram at the Wankhade stadium, and not listen to his outbursts of hysteria. Also, the Muslim bashing in his speeches makes one wonder about the mental stability of this man. He says that using the name Sita and Gita in Fire is an insult to Hindu goddesses. Tell us, Mr Thackeray, when in a Hindi commercial film, someone called Sita is raped, is it the rape of a Hindu goddess? In fact, a rape scene in a film is more likely to corrupt young minds than any scene from Fire can.

It is time we stop tolerating this semi-fascist tyranny. Let all open-minded individuals unite against this vandalism, as they did in Calcutta, and show them who the boss is around here.

Deepto Roy, Calcutta

140 kmph

Please, TT readers, don’t drive your cars or bikes when drunk. What forced me to write this was the recent tragic accident in Delhi, in which two guys in their early 20s killed five people including two police personnel. I’m shocked by their death, but, being 22, cannot bear to see boys of my age sent to jail. What will happen when they come in contact with hardcore prisoners? Still, they must pay the price of taking innocent lives.

Amit Narula, New Delhi

Age rage

Many times I come across the advice you give people that 15 or 16 is too young to get serious and feel hurt after breaking up or even miss the person too much. I don’t agree. I understand that you have to console the person by repeating phrases like "C’mon, you’re too young, you have your whole life in front of you..." and so on. But please, say something else. I am 15 and have been going steady for the past two years with a guy seven years older. But I don’t remember ever feeling that I was too young to fall in love. Love has no definite ‘to be in’ age. I seriously don’t like to be told, "Shweta, you’re too young..." That’s why I certainly won’t like my fave mag to say this. I hope you understand! Next time you think we’re too young, think again!

Shweta

Eve squeezers

I’m writing this letter in response to Asavari’s article (X-pressions, TT Jan ’99). Unfortunately, I have to agree totally with her description of the state of Delhi buses. The sickening feeling of somebody’s hand purposely clamping down on yours on the handrail or of someone pressing against you resurfaces whenever one talks about bus travel in Delhi. It is a repulsive and coercive initiation into the world of touch and sensations, an initiation which should ideally be consensual and liberating.

However, I don’t think that reservation of seats for women is the answer. At best, it is a momentary escape from the problem and then, it isn’t even that. Any girl who has sat in the aisle seat of a crowded bus will tell you about the acute discomfort of someone purposely pressing his crotch against your shoulder or leaning over you until he’s all but sitting in your lap. If just reading this makes you uncomfortable, imagine living through it.

I’m probably as inept at finding a solution to this as anyone else. What I do know is that though women are disadvantaged physically (as Asavari said), they can use strategy to combat these losers. Instead of wallowing in humiliation, we should humiliate the perpetrators by vocalising our anger. A corollary to this is that we must act on behalf of anyone else being subjected to unsolicited advances. Whoever said there’s safety in numbers knew what he was talking about.

Lastly, to all those men who think that a squeeze and a tickle is nothing to get upset about since it isn’t exactly rape—any act of sexual violence is not demeaning due to the physical act itself but because it violates an individual’s right to his/her body, every individual’s inalienable personal sphere. The differences in the crime itself are merely differences of degree.

Prerona Prasad, New Delhi

One love

Well, all the religions of the world teach the same thing about love, humanity, kindness and peace. Then why do we make religion a cause to fight? (I’m sure none of you would disagree with me in view of the past century when people have used religion as a tool for inhuman torture and the destruction of the world). India and Pakistan were separated just because one set of people read the Quran and the other set read the Gita. Atrocities committed by the Hindus upon the Christians living in Gujarat are shocking—aren’t they?

Agree or not, the majority of people

in our country still do not like the concept of inter-caste and inter-religious marriages and love still can’t prove to be superior to everything. Why can’t we just accept that people around us are similar to us, accepting the facts about cultural, political, racial, linguistic and religious differences. They too are just like us, with a heart beating in their chests and blood running through their veins. They too hate to be hurt and love to be loved.

Why can’t people live in peaceful co-existence rather than become terrorists and gun down innocent people in the name of religion? Why can’t we just take religion as a personal thing to relieve us mentally and to have better communication with God?

It is high time we guys realize that religion should not interfere with our peace of mind and should remain a personal thing. If we don’t, this merciless manslaughter shall leave all of us in the near future regretting and mourning about why the world never believed in a single religion governed by love and humanity. So let’s erase the black spot of superficiality from the face of our religion.

Don’t you agree?

Prakriti Bhatia, New Delhi

Pop goes the price

I am a 16-year-old boy living in Delhi. When you guys raised the price of your mag from Rs 15 to Rs 25, I was not happy. For the first time I bought it thinking that the price would eventually come down, but it didn’t, so I stopped buying TT (10 bucks are a great deal of money, yaar!). I thought that I could easily live without a mag (can’t I?). I didn’t buy TT for about three months but one fine day after reading your earlier issue I realised that your mag is worth Rs 25. So I went straight out and bought TT. Keep up the good work.I also want e-mail pals so if anyone wants my e-mail address, it is loverboy_158@hotmail.com.

Do you have an e-mail for

Sez You?

XYZ

Indecent proposals

Hi. I loved Asavari’s article

(X-pressions, Jan’99). It’s positively disgusting when you see a guy who could be your father’s age feeling you up. I may be a guy, but I have watched a person in ‘action’, seen the perverted, satisfied expression on his face and it made me want to throw up. What happened to decency and chivalry and all that?! Did they, like, go out with the wind or something?

Another thing is the way guys like me are treated. I was brought up with my sis and I’m an anti-MCP (and anti-feminist, too). Just because I am an ‘equal rights’ person, I get branded as a feminist who is trying to win the girls over by ‘sticking to their side’. It makes me sick when I have to be an MCP just to be ‘one of the guys’!! I’m sure they don’t read TT. I hope none of you guys out there are like that.

Tahir (tahirx@hotmail.com)

98 was fine... now ‘99

I have been reading your mag for almost a year now. I should congratulate you on your fantastic work. You guys have done a great job. The Jan issue was simply great. But ID Check was disappointing. The info on Ricky Martin and Nitish Jain was superb. Scoreboard doesn’t feature anymore! Why? It would be nice to read interviews of great sportstars. I am a great fan of your mag and hope you continue the good work.

Riya Gupta, Bangalore

 

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