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Sita-nic versesThe countrywide assault launched by the Shiv Sena on Deepa
Mehtas controversial film Fire is not a surprising or isolated incident. It just
reveals the Senas political perverseness. Whether lesbianism is good or not is not
the point. Certainly, it is an abnormal practice but that does not justify the heinous and
concerted effort to stop the film from being shown. After all, Fire is not a vulgar movie,
it is a sensitive treatment of a delicate issue. However, it is not possible to expect
anything more from a purely communal party whose leaders self-professed idol is
Hitler and which has unleashed a reign of terror and religious tension in Mumbai over the
past few yearsravaging M F Hussains house, not allowing Ghulam Ali to perform
and threatening to disrupt the much awaited tour of the Pakistan cricket team.
Mr Thackeray cannot seem to keep religion out of anything. He does
not know that art, music and sports do not accept the boundaries that people with minds as
narrow as his own have created. He does not know that people want to see Sachin facing
Akram at the Wankhade stadium, and not listen to his outbursts of hysteria. Also, the
Muslim bashing in his speeches makes one wonder about the mental stability of this man. He
says that using the name Sita and Gita in Fire is an insult to Hindu goddesses. Tell us,
Mr Thackeray, when in a Hindi commercial film, someone called Sita is raped, is it the
rape of a Hindu goddess? In fact, a rape scene in a film is more likely to corrupt young
minds than any scene from Fire can.
It is time we stop tolerating this semi-fascist tyranny. Let all
open-minded individuals unite against this vandalism, as they did in Calcutta, and show
them who the boss is around here.
Deepto Roy, Calcutta
140 kmph
Please, TT readers, dont drive your cars
or bikes when drunk. What forced me to write this was the recent tragic accident in Delhi,
in which two guys in their early 20s killed five people including two police personnel.
Im shocked by their death, but, being 22, cannot bear to see boys of my age sent to
jail. What will happen when they come in contact with hardcore prisoners? Still, they must
pay the price of taking innocent lives.
Amit Narula, New Delhi
Age rage
Many times I come across the advice you give
people that 15 or 16 is too young to get serious and feel hurt after breaking up or even
miss the person too much. I dont agree. I understand that you have to console the
person by repeating phrases like "Cmon, youre too young, you have your
whole life in front of you..." and so on. But please, say something else. I am 15 and
have been going steady for the past two years with a guy seven years older. But I
dont remember ever feeling that I was too young to fall in love. Love has no
definite to be in age. I seriously dont like to be told, "Shweta,
youre too young..." Thats why I certainly wont like my fave mag to
say this. I hope you understand! Next time you think were too young, think again!
Shweta
Eve squeezers
Im writing this letter in response to Asavaris article
(X-pressions, TT Jan 99). Unfortunately, I have to agree totally with her
description of the state of Delhi buses. The sickening feeling of somebodys hand
purposely clamping down on yours on the handrail or of someone pressing against you
resurfaces whenever one talks about bus travel in Delhi. It is a repulsive and coercive
initiation into the world of touch and sensations, an initiation which should ideally be
consensual and liberating.
However, I dont think that reservation of seats for women is
the answer. At best, it is a momentary escape from the problem and then, it isnt
even that. Any girl who has sat in the aisle seat of a crowded bus will tell you about the
acute discomfort of someone purposely pressing his crotch against your shoulder or leaning
over you until hes all but sitting in your lap. If just reading this makes you
uncomfortable, imagine living through it.
Im probably as inept at finding a solution to this as anyone
else. What I do know is that though women are disadvantaged physically (as Asavari said),
they can use strategy to combat these losers. Instead of wallowing in humiliation, we
should humiliate the perpetrators by vocalising our anger. A corollary to this is that we
must act on behalf of anyone else being subjected to unsolicited advances. Whoever said
theres safety in numbers knew what he was talking about.
Lastly, to all those men who think that a squeeze and a tickle is
nothing to get upset about since it isnt exactly rapeany act of sexual
violence is not demeaning due to the physical act itself but because it violates an
individuals right to his/her body, every individuals inalienable personal
sphere. The differences in the crime itself are merely differences of degree.
Prerona Prasad, New Delhi
One love
Well, all the religions of the world teach the same thing about
love, humanity, kindness and peace. Then why do we make religion a cause to fight?
(Im sure none of you would disagree with me in view of the past century when people
have used religion as a tool for inhuman torture and the destruction of the world). India
and Pakistan were separated just because one set of people read the Quran and the other
set read the Gita. Atrocities committed by the Hindus upon the Christians living in
Gujarat are shockingarent they?
Agree or not, the majority of people
in our country still do not like the concept of inter-caste and
inter-religious marriages and love still cant prove to be superior to everything.
Why cant we just accept that people around us are similar to us, accepting the facts
about cultural, political, racial, linguistic and religious differences. They too are just
like us, with a heart beating in their chests and blood running through their veins. They
too hate to be hurt and love to be loved.
Why cant people live in peaceful co-existence rather than
become terrorists and gun down innocent people in the name of religion? Why cant we
just take religion as a personal thing to relieve us mentally and to have better
communication with God?
It is high time we guys realize that religion should not interfere
with our peace of mind and should remain a personal thing. If we dont, this
merciless manslaughter shall leave all of us in the near future regretting and mourning
about why the world never believed in a single religion governed by love and humanity. So
lets erase the black spot of superficiality from the face of our religion.
Dont you agree?
Prakriti Bhatia, New Delhi
Pop goes the price
I am a 16-year-old boy living in Delhi. When you guys raised the
price of your mag from Rs 15 to Rs 25, I was not happy. For the first time I bought it
thinking that the price would eventually come down, but it didnt, so I stopped
buying TT (10 bucks are a great deal of money, yaar!). I thought that I could easily live
without a mag (cant I?). I didnt buy TT for about three months but one fine
day after reading your earlier issue I realised that your mag is worth Rs 25. So I went
straight out and bought TT. Keep up the good work.I also want e-mail pals so if anyone
wants my e-mail address, it is loverboy_158@hotmail.com.
Do you have an e-mail for
Sez You?
XYZ
Indecent proposals
Hi. I loved Asavaris article
(X-pressions, Jan99). Its positively disgusting when you
see a guy who could be your fathers age feeling you up. I may be a guy, but I have
watched a person in action, seen the perverted, satisfied expression on his
face and it made me want to throw up. What happened to decency and chivalry and all that?!
Did they, like, go out with the wind or something?
Another thing is the way guys like me are treated. I was brought up
with my sis and Im an anti-MCP (and anti-feminist, too). Just because I am an
equal rights person, I get branded as a feminist who is trying to win the
girls over by sticking to their side. It makes me sick when I have to be an
MCP just to be one of the guys!! Im sure they dont read TT. I hope
none of you guys out there are like that.
Tahir (tahirx@hotmail.com)
98 was fine... now 99
I have been reading your mag for almost a year now. I should
congratulate you on your fantastic work. You guys have done a great job. The Jan issue was
simply great. But ID Check was disappointing. The info on Ricky Martin and Nitish Jain was
superb. Scoreboard doesnt feature anymore! Why? It would be nice to read interviews
of great sportstars. I am a great fan of your mag and hope you continue the good work.
Riya Gupta, Bangalore
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